This is a good point. I’ve been on a tear posting about this on FB and Medium (like, about how I just unfriended somebody I’ve known for decades). My wife and I (she’s black, I’m white) have 2 boys in their late teens. I’m terrified for them. I have been for a long time. As a friend of mine says, I have skin in the game. But I still have to remember to STFU a lot.